My Husband....

I know that this is very late. Though I can give many reasons for not writing down here,all those reasons would be lame excuses. Sorry for that! I very well know that you will forgive me as you do it often!! Thanks in advance for that!

To start with, I met Gowrishankar at my home in a very traditional atmosphere amidst a crowd. He was in a perfect attire which would attract and make any girl to say YES to marry him. And so I cannot say that I did compromises in my marriage. On the other hand, I need to mention that the first sight spark and a strong bell and many of those cinematic indications were totally null from my side. To be honest it was more of a arranged wedding and we accepted our parents proposal to unite us. Our engagement date was fixed on the very same day we met. I never thought that this would happen!!


The period between betrothal and wedlock was quite huge of about 8 months. That period was quite interesting and we got to know about each other (one and only good qualities were focused to show off from both the sides)..Outings and home parties were of routine during that period. We met at least twice a week!!


Once our wedding was over we learnt many aspects in life. We got to know that life is not as easy as we thought. We realized that many adjustments and compromises were of utmost demand to lead a life with a person who was brought up in entirely a different environment. As a girl there were many responsibilities brought on my shoulders and in the very same way as a boy he was too on overload. We took quite a lot time to acclamatize.The initial months of our wedding showed the real picture of both of us. We came to know about each other‘s real likes and dislikes. Though there were many bitter moments , we later found that, that bitterness prepared and urged us to taste the sweetness of wedded life.


I came to know a lot about him on my days with him in the initial days. He was there by my side, supported and motivated me for all my endeavors.He was awake late night helping me out in preparations for my exams. He sacrificed and controlled his taste buds on many of my exam days as we would get food from hotels and restaurants and I would take leave from all my house hold works. But he never complained or demanded to me to work at those times!!There were only words of encouragement and kindness from his mouth. This very special quality made him to reach a top most position in my heart. I felt at the very moment, that next to my father and mother, there is a real soul which cares about me.


As now a days there is a wide talk about chemistry between mates. I too need to mention about that! I personally feel that we secured 100% in that chemistry!!whatever struck me, it struck to his mind at the very same time. To quote one, I would be about to ask a question to him, he turns towards me to put forth the very same one to me…it has happened several times ….and many other such instances also happened….


Though we have quarrels (which is the part and parcel of every couple in this world),he would be the first person to leave ego, come to me and speak most of the times. He is a perfect, very caring and honest husband.


Very lucky to have him by my side...Thanks to my Mom n Dad to have shown him to me…Many thanks to my in laws and God for giving me this precious gift!!